monogamy | Down-n-Dirty Blog on Relationships

Published by admin on April 13, 2019

Our Brand New Podcast: Playing In Mindfields!

Hey Everyone! I’m so excited to share that, finally, after talking about starting a podcast for YEARS, it’s finally a reality. Without knowing it, I was waiting for the right partner. And I found him. His name is Stacy McFadden, and he’s super awesome. We have recorded 4 episodes so far and released the first…

Published by admin on April 2, 2019

LOVE: WANTED DEAD OR ALIVE

I know you want commitment. You want to know that if you open yourself up to me, fully, that I will give all of me to you. A fair proposition. And pre-supposition—for your love. And I understand your sentiment. But what if I told you that the I that I am—the I that you claim…

Published by admin on November 29, 2016

My Next “Relationship”

Someone recently asked me, “Alex, you just got OUT of a relationship–why are you already thinking about your next one?” Because at THIS moment, I am VERY CLEAR on what I DO NOT WANT in a relationship. When we leave a relationship, there are things that weren’t working–obviously. Emotionally and time-wise, we are closest to that “knowing”…

Published by admin on April 29, 2016

The 5 Keys to Finding Mr. Extraordinary

I had lunch with a woman today at my place. Err–my brother’s place. She came over so I could help set-up her blog on WordPress. I made a nice salad–complete with fennel. Now, you know I’m out to impress if I spring for fennel. That’s a luxury item in my budget. Anyway, we had a nice…

Published by admin on April 27, 2016

Shaken or Stirred: How Do You Like Your LOVE Served?

Coffee. Some people like it black. Others with loads of sugar. Then, there are the Starbucks people. Grande, Iced, Sugar-Free, Vanilla Latte With Soy Milk, please. My point: people have very specific ways they like their coffee. And once they find the way they like it, they usually stick with it. You rarely hear a Starbucks…

Published by admin on March 4, 2016

So… You Think You’re Ready for a Poly/Open Relationship? 10 Questions to Find Out!

Are you ready for a Poly/Open relationship? Many of you might be thinking, Hey, it could be fun to expand my relationship! It definitely could be. But more likely than not, you’re not ready. Not even close to ready. Not the same ballpark as ready. I mean, why add more people to the mix when…

Our Brand New Podcast: Playing In Mindfields!