Down-n-Dirty Blog on Relationships

Published by admin on March 9, 2019

Leaky

  I wonder: what’s it like to leak?   I don’t leak. I don’t have an open wound, susceptible to foreign objects— unwanted objects.   Nothing penetrates me.   Impenetrable— the credo of the male species.   What’s it like to walk through this world with a hole that can bleed without provocation?   What’s…

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Published by admin on June 12, 2016

I’m a Size 2

  That’s what a woman said to me at Starbucks today. Apparently, my chair was too far out in the aisle. She was trying to squeeze through the space between my chair and the table behind me. Excuse me, she said. Can you scoot in?  I was reading and hadn’t see her. Upon passing, I heard her…

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Published by admin on May 17, 2016

Why Women Lie

  Yesterday, I wrote about reasons why men lie. But there is a major difference between how men and women lie. Men lie to women. Women lie to themselves. Men lie for loads of reasons: not wanting to deal with your drama over a no biggie our backs are to the wall and all known escape routes…

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Published by admin on May 16, 2016

Why Men Lie

I recently wrote a post about cheating. I said that my future partner would never cheat on me because our relationship was going to be based on honesty. Blah, blah, blah. Super cheesy. But that was just the beginning of my thoughts on the topic. It’s not that my future partner isn’t going to cheat on me. It’s…

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Published by admin on May 7, 2016

How We Use Sex… Differently

I heard this amazing quote: Men connect to have sex. Women have sex to connect. This truth struck me hard and fast (no pun intended).   I could almost end this post here. Just think about it. … … … (Did you think about it, or are you merely reading?) Almost everything we need to know…

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