Dating | Down-n-Dirty Blog on Relationships

Published by admin on April 13, 2019

Our Brand New Podcast: Playing In Mindfields!

Hey Everyone! I’m so excited to share that, finally, after talking about starting a podcast for YEARS, it’s finally a reality. Without knowing it, I was waiting for the right partner. And I found him. His name is Stacy McFadden, and he’s super awesome. We have recorded 4 episodes so far and released the first…

Published by admin on April 2, 2019

LOVE: WANTED DEAD OR ALIVE

I know you want commitment. You want to know that if you open yourself up to me, fully, that I will give all of me to you. A fair proposition. And pre-supposition—for your love. And I understand your sentiment. But what if I told you that the I that I am—the I that you claim…

Published by admin on March 13, 2019

Exotic Erotic

tongues pressed against our palates she sticky with dragon fruit me sticky with anticipation her island, my bed writhing in cosmic, carnal undulation each breathy exchange collapsing the 11 time zones between 1 x glorious 1 lingering and loitering in licentiousness both bodies and beings follow me here…

Published by admin on February 16, 2019

My Yoga Teacher Flirt Fail—Lessons Learned

So, I’ve had a crush on my yoga teacher for some time now. I did an unlimited month of yoga and was often at her class (purely coincidentally). But my month ended, and we all know my track record for committing to anything for too long. So, I’ve been cheating on yoga with CrossFit…

Published by admin on February 14, 2019

It’s Valentine’s Day, I’m Single, and I Couldn’t Be Happier

And if you believed that title… Let’s get real. Being single ain’t easy. You wake up each day, look in the mirror, and say to yourself, “Welp, nobody will be enjoying THIS today.” And as the days turn into years, you start to understand what it’s like to be a beautiful flower that no…

Published by admin on December 29, 2018

Online Dating, Karma & Poker

Many of you probably don’t know that I’ve been getting into poker lately. It’s such a fun, complex sport (sport in that it works out your mind). Anyway, I’ve been watching youtube videos, absorbing information and strategy, and played a couple of tournaments at the Hard Rock Seminole Casino down here, with some pretty decent…

Published by admin on October 27, 2018

Infidelity & The Call of our Soul

I’m reading The Unbearable Lightness of Being, a remarkable novel by a literary genius, Milan Kundera. In one of the scenes, Tereza, the wife of the protagonist (who himself is a total philanderer), has sex with a stranger from a bar to see what it’s like to have sex without love. As she walked to…

Our Brand New Podcast: Playing In Mindfields!