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Published by admin on August 12, 2017

My Life Dilemma: To Quest or Not to Quest

That is the question. Isn’t it? I’m not trying to wax philosophical like Shakespeare (ok, maybe I am) but seriously: is this not the GRAND QUESTION OF THEM ALL??! To Quest or Not to Quest This is life in a nutshell. My life, your life, all of our lives: to play it safe,…

Published by admin on August 7, 2017

The Wisdom of Un-plan

We place such a high value of knowing what we’re doing in this culture; of having a plan. I have no plan. Sure, I have desires, goals and such– but not a plan. And that’s not easy–especially in a culture that expects us to know what we’re doing. But I’ve had plans. I’ve…

Published by admin on July 22, 2017

Losing Grip: The Sequel

Earlier in the day, I wrote out my feelings in Losing Grip. It’s short. I highly recommend you stop and read it first. I ended it by saying, And I don’t want to fight anymore. I realize how this may have left many of you really unsure as to my intentions. And while I thought about…

Published by admin on July 21, 2017

Losing Grip

I’m living in a place where I’m not entirely wanted or appreciated. I’m broke af, making it difficult to move. I look at CL ads but see nothing that really fits–and I don’t want to “force” it. I’m living irresponsibly– and I’m not sure if I care. I don’t want to give in…

Published by admin on July 13, 2017

My Evening with Scientology

My friend, Chris, called me today and told me how he was waiting in line at some actor thing when he got hit up by a guy from Scientology for an evening seminar of sorts for actors. As it was my day off from the sex joint, I thought, hey… why not! Now, before…

Published by admin on July 10, 2017

Writing My Struggle

I never really consider writing my struggle. I usually spend my day trying to come up with a juicy morsel for my lovely readers–that’s you–to sink their teeth/dentures into. Something insightful and humorous that will leave a positive mark on your day. And, if I catch the word train… upon your life, as well. But…

Published by admin on June 29, 2017

Why Relationship Advice is Crap

I once consulted the I Ching for a reading with a friend of mine. We both “asked” the online app the same question, and to my astonishment, we got completely different answers. The question: is having casual sex good for me? But it kinda made sense. His journey was moving into a more soulful…

My Life Dilemma: To Quest or Not to Quest