Down-n-Dirty Blog on Relationships

Published by admin on April 13, 2019

Our Brand New Podcast: Playing In Mindfields!

Hey Everyone! I’m so excited to share that, finally, after talking about starting a podcast for YEARS, it’s finally a reality. Without knowing it, I was waiting for the right partner. And I found him. His name is Stacy McFadden, and he’s super awesome. We have recorded 4 episodes so far and released the first…

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Published by admin on January 29, 2018

When Paradise is Unsettling: My Love Burn Experience

I had the good fortune to spend this past weekend at a regional burn (think Burning Man, but way smaller) in south Florida on Key Biscayne Island. Myself and 2,000 soon-to-be good friends, camping, drinking, dancing and fucking. Well… 3 out of 4 ain’t bad.   There’s a lot of truth in the unspoken. As I learned in my…

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Published by admin on March 16, 2016

Why We See Women as Weak

  My epiphany struck in Publix. I was shopping with a friend and just slightly ahead of him. I found myself keeping tabs on whether he was coming with me or not. I started to feel a tinge of insecurity. Was I going to assert my independence, or was I going to have to follow…

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Published by admin on November 3, 2015

The Answer is More Crazy, Not Less

I used to try to hide my crazy. Maybe we all do. Who wants to look like an emotional wreck? Who wants to get defensive at a relatively benign comment that is directed your way, or become overly sensitive because someone didn’t respond to you the way that you wanted? Nobody wants to appear these…

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